Everything in your life will be much quieter.
Your phone will stop vibrating as much.
Your schedule will also become more open.
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And at first, it will hurt.
You will miss him.
You will want to reach out.
You will try and convince yourself that his half-assed effort was enough because at least it wassomething.
At least you werent alone.
At least you had someones attention, even if it was scattered.
Heres the thing, though: the bare minimum will never be enough.
Thebare minimum manwill always leave you empty and wanting more.
He will make you question your self-worth.
He will make you doubt yourself and what you deserve.
Hell make you feel crazy for asking for what you need.
Do not listen to him.
Listen to your instincts.
If youre thirsty, you dont question it.
Your emotional needs are just as valid.
If you dont feel supported, loved, and cared for, believe what you feel.
Ask him for what you need and if he wont provide those things?
Let him go.
Stop settling for the bare minimum man.
Once the pain begins to wade, youll notice new feelings.
You stop looking for projects and seek partnership instead.
You begin to live in what-is, not what-ifs.
Give yourself a chance to find him.Let the bare minimum man go.
