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Updated 8 years ago,September 25, 2017
When yourex texts you, youre confused.
That if you look at it for long enough, it will start making sense.
Either way, you have a go at analyze the message.
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Does he want to get back together?
Does he want aone-night stand?
Does he just want to mess with you?
You have no idea, so you search through his social media.
You look for clues in his photos and status updates.
Is he recently single again?
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Is there an obvious reason why he would be reaching out to you?
When you still cant figure it out, instead of texting him back, you text your friends.
You send them screenshots of what he said.
You laugh about how ridiculous it is that he thinks its okay to contact you after what happened.
When your ex texts you, all of the progress you made since the breakup disappears.
You were doing so well without him.
You stopped thinking about him a while ago.
You thought you were completely over him.
You thought you were fine.
You know youre going to be back at square one.
Youre going to have to erase him from your mind all over again.
You remember the inside jokes you shared and the flirtatious banter that went back and forth.
You remember the way his lips tasted, how soft his skin felt against yours.
You remember how happy you were whenever you were with him.
When your ex texts you, you consider all of your possibilities.
What would happen if you ignored him,blocked him.
What would happen if you cursed him out, told him to leave you alone.
What would happen if you played nice, texted back, let history repeat itself.
When your ex texts you, you have to be strong.
You have to remember what youre worth.
You have to remember that you deserve better than someone who has hurt you before.
