If you truly love her, then love her.
A problem with todays generation is that possession is so easily confused with love.
A way to tell the eyes of innocent bystanders in society that you own someone else.
Jenny Woods
Why do you own someone else?
Well, because you love them.
Stop using the wordloveas a temporary word to describe your feelings of unclarity.
She thinks love is hand marks across a cheek and words that leave invisible scars.
She thinks love is waking up one day being adored and then worthless the next.
She thinks love is unfulfilled promises and apologies.
She thinks love is a cold shoulder and being told nobody else will ever love her.
She thinks love is ignored calls and feelings of inadequacy.
So if you truly love her, then love her.
Love her for who she is right now, who she was, and who she will be.
Love her through her past, scars and all.
Love her walls and respect them, but then break them down.
Love her with every ounce in your body.
Dont just tell her you love her, make her see it.
Dont just make her see you love her, make her feel it.
Dont just make her feel you love her, make her soul know it.
Make your love so known that it has found a permanent residence in her body.
In the way you put your hand on her cheek and brush the hair behind her ear.
In the way you roll your eyes at her when she snorts from you making her laugh so hard.
Make her feel safe like your love cant be taken back.
Like the words cant be undone and sucked back into your body.
Show her you love her even when youre upset at her.
Show her you love her even when youve had a long day at work.
Show her you love her when youre hurting.
You dont get to pick and choose when you love someone.
Love isnt waking up and picking your wardrobe for the day.
Love is the dimple on her left cheek.
It is forever with her and not even makeup can cover it up.
If thats what you consider love, then count her out.
Love isnt I want you to make me happy.
Love is, I want you to be happy.
Love isnt a trading hands.
Love is all cards on the table right side up.
Love doesnt keep receipts or score.
Love is the same team.
Love isnt whos right.
Love is what is right.
Love doesnt throw things away when theyre broken.
Because once you love her, there is no turning back.
Its not easy, but its worth it.
