It means being an outsider in the modern dating scene.
By
Updated 8 years ago,July 30, 2017
It means experiencing a great deal of pain.
Unlike many people out there, you know who you are.
Andrew Nolan
You know what you want in life and you are confident about your purpose on earth.
And because of that, your heart breaks tremendously.
And you feel that feeling youve never felt before; its real, its raw, its authentic.
Andrew Nolan
It means being an outsider in the modern dating scene.
You dont date a hundred people to get to know what your punch in is.
You dont sleep with a bunch of people to learn how to fuck somebody, how to love someone.
It means being emotionally unavailable even if youre single, it means being lonely most of the time.
You would rather have a bleeding heart over being surrounded by ingenuine intentions.
It means appreciating what matters before it slips through your hands.
It means saying I love you first.
It means being scared but going for it anyways, it means giving it a real chance.
And it means choosing whats on the inside instead of falling head over heels for the outside.
It means counting adventures, it means making memories.
It means watching the sunset instead of Netflix.
It means spending time together instead of texting.
It means holding hands instead of running away from them.
It means being present not just being there.
It means being less selfish, less impulsive, less abusive.
You see life and everything else beyond your best interest.
You live in the moment but you think before you act.
You express your frustration, but you dont act it out on the person.
It means being the one who loves more.
It means giving too much of yourself because you understand how lucky you are.
It means that you are all in; body, mind, heart and soul.
It means being judged.
It means being misunderstood.
And it means being challenged and put to the test.
It means coming off as needy, desperate or dreamy.
It means being told to slow down, to chill, to be patient.
It means telling someone where you are coming from only to have them not see where you are heading.
It means being committed, persistent and hopeful.
It means being a grown-up before you are one.
It means being enlightened early on.
And it means wisdom without knowing.
