They betrayed her, disappointed her, abandoned her which taught her to look out for herself.
She learned the hard way that no one else is going to take care of her.
She has to take care of herself.
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Thats why shes so independent.
Of course, just because she puts herself first doesnt mean shes selfish.
It doesnt mean shes going to screw you over because the only person she cares about it herself.
Shes much kinder than people realize.
She has a huge heart.
Putting herself first only means she isnt willing to get taken advantage of anymore.
Shes going to put her mental health before their comfort.
You cannot control her.
She makes her own decisions.
She is her own person.
You cannot expect her to spend every second of every day with you.
She has her own life.
She has her own problems.
She will confirm you spend quality time together.
When you love a girl who puts herself first, you have to be okay with being second best.
This doesnt mean shes going to mistreat you.
It doesnt mean shes going to neglect you.
It only means, when it comes down to it, she will always choose herself over the relationship.
