I get it we are guys, we are visual, we look, blah blah blah.

However we are human beings with the built in capacity for self-control and empathy.

This is the message sent when your partner looks at another person with lust in their eyes.

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Daniel Monteiro

Those who I dated that possessed a wandering eye inevitably cheated on me.

The beginning of the end if you will.

A relationship with a person who has a wandering eye is really no relationship at all.

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Daniel Monteiro

We always tend to write it off as innocent curiosity and harmless fun.

Knowing that our partners find others attractive is completely understandable.

We are human and are blessed with the ability to recognize and appreciate beauty.

It can be triggering and can make our partners feel like they are not enough.

Truth is we all find people attractive in one way or another.

We all can appreciate the fundamentals of beauty.

One of those things is the nasty habit of looking at others with lust.

Ok. A lustful stare?

Remember this and love considerately.