But what if we finally find him and hes not what we thought hed be?
What if it turns out that we dont want him at all?
This is what its like to be in a shitty relationship with a really good guy.
Trinity Kubassek
You feel like youre being greedy.
What more could you want?
Your friends dont see the problem.
Your single friends have been dealing with nothing but fuckboys.
They would kill to have a boyfriend like yours.
If you make a run at rant about him, they wont listen to a word of it.
They dont think you should be complaining when youre so lucky.
You come across as a complete asshole.
Hes pulled off more romantic moves than any other man would.
But the truth is, it doesnt matter what he does.
The spark just isnt there.
You wonder if youre the problem.
Youve always wanted a boyfriend who tells the truth and answers your texts without making you wait.
Now you have one, but you still arent satisfied.
You feel like youre sabotaging your own chances at happiness.
You cant bring yourself to love him, and you hate yourself for it.
Your life looks better on Instagram.
On the surface, you have plenty to brag about.
Thats why your Instagram is filled with pictures of romantic dinners hes cooked and thoughtful gifts hes bought you.
Everyone considers you two relationship goals, but really, you couldnt be more eager to be single again.
You end up hurting yourself, too.
Of course, that only makes him grow more and more attached to you.
The longer you stay with him, the worse youll feel about your charade.
You wish you could magically develop feelings for him, but you just cant.
Youre not attracted to his mind or his body, and theres nothing you might do to change that.
You question everything about love.
You dont love him, but maybe that doesnt matter?
Maybe love isnt as important as mutual respect and admiration.
You genuinely want to keep him as a friend.
Hell think the Lets just be friends line is a lie, but its the truth.
You dont want him out of your life.
You just want him out of your bed.
You know you dont belong with him.
Youve been fighting the truth, but deep down you know you oughta say goodbye to him soon.
Your future boyfriend might not be as perfect as he is, but at least youll be happy together.
Youd take a passionate romance over a bland boyfriend any day.
