Sometimes, being single really is for the best, because your heart is in the process of healing.
Because you’re putting your energy toward working on yourself.
Because you’re trying to get yourself back into a good, healthy place.
Andrey Zvyagintsev
That you must be miserable if youre alone.
That you could not possibly be happy unless youre in a committed relationship that is headed somewhere serious.
Even when youre cool with your single status, its impossible to convince everyone else youre telling the truth.
They think youre only saying what you think youresupposedto say.
They think youre fooling yourself for protect yourself.
They have trouble believing that you wouldchoseto be single.
That you wouldchoseto stay on your own.
That you wouldchoseto walk this earth alone.
You should be proud you dont need another person to feel whole.
Sometimes, being single really is for the best, because youre swamped with responsibilities.
You need as much time as possible to focus on yourself, your career milestones, your personal milestones.
You dont have extra time to dedicate to a relationship.
You dont have extra energy to spend on another person.
you should probably save it for yourself.
Sometimes, being single really is for the best, because your heart is in the process of healing.
Because youre putting your energy toward working on yourself.
Because youre trying to get yourself back into a good, healthy place without the help of a rebound.
Because you want to focus on yourself as an individual, not yourself as a couple.
Sometimes, being single really is for the best, because you havent met a good match yet.
Because you would rather stay single than force yourself into a relationship you realize isnt going to work.
Sometimes, being single really is for the best, because youre in a good fucking place.
Because you arent interested in a change.
Because youve built a comfortable home for yourself and are excited to see whats in store.
Because, honestly, you havent even thought about dating in ages.
It sucks that no one believes youre being honest when you say youre one-hundred percent happy without a relationship.
But does it really matter?
Its better to be genuinely happy than to have the whole world think youre happy when youre not.
Its better to live a life you love than the life that is expected of you.
