Some people are only in a friendship or relationship so you can get ahead.
Theres really no way to explain it past the fact that it hurts.
It happens, though.
Ethan Hoover
When it happens, it can send a wave of emotions over you.
It can make you feel as though theres no one it’s possible for you to trust.
Why should you believe that they genuinely care when the person that you believed in didnt?
you’ve got the option to allow yourself some time to grieve, to question things.
Allow yourself to examine the friendships and relationships that youre currently involved in.
Its difficult, and it takes time.
you’re free to take the time you need, but eventually you have to keep going.
Some people are only in a friendship or relationship to get to get ahead.
They have no qualms about using a person just to get what they want.
Once you realize that they never cared, though, it can also be freeing.
You gave your all, and they gave nothing in return.
You may have helped them out with something before they disappeared.
Set them loose, and hope that theyre going to change their ways.
Im not saying that you should wish anyone illthats only going to hurt yourself.
Dont feed negative energy into the world; instead, focus on the positives.
Easier said than done, right?
Take some time to yourself and process things.
You didnt do anything to deserve someone treating you so poorly.
If someone that you cared for so deeply hurts you, youre going to need time.
Thats the only answer.
Time and self care.
Find things that make you happyfall back into your life, yourself.
Put the care into yourself.
Treat yourself to things that you love, spend some time with your friends, with your family.
If it helps, spend some time with yourself.
Remember what made you the shining light that was there in the first place.
