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Updated 9 months ago,July 19, 2024
This is an open letter to you.
This is an open letter to anyone.
These words can be used for whomever, whenever, wherever.
Anastasia Shuraeva
Let these words help you, as they have helped me.
One way or another when a relationship ends, you learn that you deserve this kind of love.
Either way, you learn that you deserve the most enriching and fulfilling love.
You Should Always Be The First Choice
When someone loves you, you become the priority.
You are the first choice.
After a loving relationship ends, you learn that you should never settle for second choice in another relationship.
Your Love Was Worth It
Regardless of how it ended, your love was worth it.
Everything you learned, everything you lost was worth it in the end.
Your Shared Moments Are Still Valuable
The time that you spent with your love is still happy.
Dont cloud it with sadness.
The memories you made and the adventures you had are still dazzling and wonderful.
There is value in these moments, even if they are in the past.
Your Love Felt Good
At the end of the day, you were loved.
Someone truly and wholeheartedly loved you.
You loved them as well.
Your love was fun, it was sweet, and it was comfortable.
Your Love Wont Vanish
As tragic as it is, you will never forget your first love.
Never Regret The Love You Shared
Not for one minute should you regret your love.
How incredible is that?
Your love was something beautiful.
It was something raw and passionate.
Why would you regret a time when someones presence made you feel like you could soar above the clouds?
You Will Love Again
Loving someone shows you that you might love.
You were vulnerable and shared parts of your soul with another.
With time, you’re able to do it again.
The Easy
When someone loves you, it feels as if anything is possible.
Yet, when a relationship ends you wonder what on earth happened.
Simply put, even if you love each other sometimes life gets in the way.
Let yourself sink into this sadness.
Expel this sadness out, let it ooze out of your pores.
Its okay and you will be okay.
Yet, learn that your identity is one that is whole.
You were never half a person when you were with them.
In your relationship you were whole and you left your relationship whole as well.
They loved every insecurity and every stupid thought you had about yourself.
Even after things are over, never question your worth or your identity.
You are exceptional, you always have been and you always will be.
it’s possible for you to reinvent what this love means and how its expressed.
The end isnt the ending for you and its not the end for them.
Its an adjustment as you reevaluate what your new normal becomes.
Love Who You Are Becoming
You are a shining star.
Your past love showed you how to feel this way.
Love that you are becoming stronger, wiser, and more sure of yourself.
