Cancer: Your need for security.

Youwantto fall in love.

Youre too impatient to really commit.

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Pietra Schwarzler

When you meet someone good, youre always wondering if theres someone better, or if youre just settling.

Your energy and impulsivity ruin the chance for you to find pure, long-lasting love.

Youve always been careful, sometimes to a fault.

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Youre the jot down of person who falls slowly, methodically, and takes his/her time letting people in.

Youre a social person.

Theres no shame in that.

hesitant couple, what’s holding you back from love, scared of love, zodiac sign

Pietra Schwarzler

But sometimes your longing for stimulation can hinder your love life.

When it comes down to it, youre an extremely protective person.

You would give your life for the people around you.

These are all positives, but sometimes your dedication and protective nature can hinder you from taking chances.

Especially on new people.

You have a good head on your shoulders.

Whats truly holding you back from finding real love is your pride.

Someone you might have otherwise missed.

From the outside youre cool and collected, but underneath the surface your mind is running wild.

Dont worry, yourenot the only one.

And overthinking isnt necessarily a bad thing, only bad when it starts to control your life and decisions.

(Which, by the way, it totally is.)

You are a great listener, a deep thinker, and a strong-but-silent soul.

Dont obsess over what you dont know or cant changeinstead, let go and fall.

When it comes to relationships, though, this can be your downfall.

Youre a very selfless person, but whats truly holding you back from finding real love is your indecision.

Sometimes you have to be true to what you really desire, and take a step forward.

You like to be alone and are often the best version of yourself when youre doing things solo.

But, underneath it all, you crave love.

And to find that real love, you must be willing to share your life with someone.

You are adventurous, and thats an understatement.

And thats how youve come to view relationshipsas restrictions rather than blessings.

To really let someone in, you have to understand that love doesnt have to hold you back.

And you dont need to (and shouldnt) run at the first sign of trouble.

Whats truly holding you back from finding real love is your inability to say no.

Youre a daydreamer, a deep-thinker, a worrywart.