Maybe he isn’t prepared to give you the love that you deserve.
You dont understand it.
You wish he never used that cliched phrase that hesnot ready for a relationship right now.

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It feels like a lame excuse.
Like hes lying to your face because the truth would be too uncomfortable.
Or maybe hes being honest, maybe hes reallynot ready for a relationship.

Maybe he really isnt ready for a relationship and the effort, responsibility, and trust that it entails.
Maybe a girlfriend would be impossible for him to handle right now.
That doesnt mean that what he did was okay.

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That doesnt mean you should wait for him until heisready, either.
It just means that all of the special moments you shared werent for nothing.
They might have meant as much to him as they meant to you.
He might have liked you as much as you liked him.
But timing is a bitch.
Love is a bitch.
Sometimes, relationships dont work out, even if two people truly care for each other.
Sometimes, life seriously sucks.
So dont tear yourself apart when you hear that he isnt ready for a relationship.
Dont let thosewhat-ifsplague your mind.
Dont let this rejection claw your heart to shreds.
He might not beready for a relationship, but there are other boys out there who are.
Boys who would be eager to jump into your bed, into your arms, into your heart forevermore.