I had been through several dating relationships that never worked out for one reason or another.
On paper, the men I dated were great, but it just never felt like the right fit.
So I eventually developed this assumption that I couldnt have my cake and eat it too…i.e.
Really, it was a fear.
I can laugh about it now, but in the moment, it felt very real.
I realized that this is a common fear among older single women and men.
Lets stop pretending like it is.
You are not alone if you are feeling this way.
But at the same time, I dont think we are to live our lives discouraged and in longing.
I had also just come out of a relationship, one week before I met him.
Ive heard this same scenario time and time again.
Love often finds you when you least expect it.
Hebrews 11:1 says Faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance in what we do not see.
Of course it isnt perfect.
Relationships never are and they shouldnt be, because we are all imperfect humans.
But believe me when I say that true soul compatibility is a thing.
Finding a man who pursues you, loves you, and values you, is a thing.
Living life along side your best friend is a thing.
Its not easy to find, but it exists.
And I want to encourage any of you single women and men out there reading this, with that.
And that you will be ready to find love in the most unlikely of places.
