When narcissists say these 9 phrases in relationships, this is what they really mean.
Were in this together.
I am so looking forward to a future with you.
Vlada Karpovich
Keep in mind, narcissists and psychopaths have to pull the wool over your eyes to win.
I wish you would let go of the past.
Why are you always causing drama?
This phrase is weaponized by narcissists to gaslight victims after provoking them chronically and deliberately into emotionally reacting.
I just need a break from all this.
Narcissists and psychopaths operate differently.
Are we really right for each other?
You are crazy and insecure.
Truly secure people know how to advocate for themselves and express themselves in healthy ways.
This discourages their victims from speaking out or doing further investigation to confirm their intuition.
This isnt about you.
Translation: its really all aboutme.
They weaponize the victims fears and traumas they know will harm them.
They gain emotional fulfillment from trying to hinder their victims progress and taking attention away from the victim.
Youre asking for too much.
If you aretrauma bondedto a narcissist, you are not alone and professional support is out there.
You deserve to heal.
