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Updated 7 years ago,February 12, 2018
Dont give him the power.
You should have the power.
Dont be the one who cares more and lose your power.
Dont show too much interest or else youll give her the power.
Dont make the first move and lose your power.
I dont know how this absurd trend started and when it will stop.
When did relationships become a game of power?
And why are we talking about relationships like were about to go to war?
In my opinion, power is just an illusion.
frank cordoba
You wont really look back on your love life and remember the moments that made you feel powerful.
If anything, youll miss the moments ofvulnerabilitythe most.
Youll remember the nights you opened up and the nights you poured your heart out.
Youll remember the moments when you made someone feel loved and the moments you were loved.
Youll remember all the times lovehealedyou when nothing else could.
You wont remember who texted first or who cared less.
You wont remember all the times you rejected someone or someone rejected you simply because this is not love.
If you think that having more power in your relationship will make it work, think again.
Relationships fall apart because offeelingsnot because of power.
They fall apart when the emotional connection is distorted and when the passion is not there anymore.
They fall apart when couples start acting like theyre on separate teams instead of being on the same one.
The thing is if you dont act like a team, theres no way you could win.
And good teams win when theyreunited.When they have the same goal.
When they have the same dream.
When they care about the outcome more than their personal interests.
The only powerful relationships are the ones based on balance, understanding, compassion and compromise.
Power is just an illusion.
Power is bait used to capture those with fragile egos.
