Allowing them back into your world could unravel months, maybe even years, of progress.
It could bring you right back to the same mindset you were in when you last associated with them.
It could cause the world you’ve built without them to fall apart.
Henri Pham
You dont owe them anything, not even a response.
You dont have to open up the gates to your heart.
You dont have to answer to be nice.
Youre not overreacting or holding a grudge by refusing to give them anymore of your time.
Youre only protecting yourself.
Youre doing the best thing for your own sanity.
You know speaking to them again is a huge deal.
And you know one text isnt going to be the end of this.
Allowing them back into your world could unravel months, maybe even years, of progress.
It could bring you right back to the same mindset you were in when you last associated with them.
It could cause the world youve built without them to fall apart.
When someone toxic reaches out again, you have every right to pretend it never happened.
it’s possible for you to go right back to living without them.
you’re able to go right back to not thinking about them.
you’re able to move on with your day, move on with your life.
You cannot have any expectations.
There is achancetalking to them could give you closure.
But there is also a chance talking to them is going to make things worse.
Its probably not a great idea to put yourself in the same exact position and expect different results.
When someone toxic reaches out to you, you should probably set boundaries to protect yourself.
If you only want this person around in small doses, you oughta be transparent with them about that.
You know how horrible they can make you feel.
When someone toxic reaches out to you, dont worry about coming across as rude by ignoring them.
Youre allowed to keep them in your past.
