When it comes to any relationships you cant go back.
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Updated 8 years ago,September 20, 2017
Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring.
Some of them love us dearly.
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Many of them have good intentions.
They arent inherently bad people, but they arent the right people for us.
And as hard as it is, we have to let them go.
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You have to make your wellbeing a priority.
Daniell Koepke
Its never easy determining if someone is toxic for you.
Especially if its someone you love and care about.
Someone who has played a major role in your life.
Someone who was once such a positive influence on you.
A healthy relationship is one that is balanced.
One where the person is meeting you completely halfway.
One where you dont feel like youre trying too hard.
One where someone is sharing in your success and your joy.
One where someone is helping to achieve things.
So how does a relationship that is so healthy suddenly crumble and turn toxic?
It comes down to the relationship not evolving as you are.
People are meant to evolve and grow and adapt.
The hardest thing to determine is if someones part in your story is over.
Did they teach me everything they could?
Did I give the best I could give to them?
But a lot of the time we allow a history dictates our future.
We cling to people we shouldnt just because of who they were and what to they meant to us.
But so many of us cling to what was instead of looking at what is right now.
Someone who once adored you treats you badly and you allow it.
Someone who once wasfiercely independentcan easily become clingy then youre trying too hard and they are overwhelmed.
Someone who used to appreciate all you had to give suddenly starts expecting these things.
And you wonder what changed yet you keep trying when they dont deserve your effort.
Then they start to ignore you.
Judge people for who they are not the versions of who you want or expect them to be.
When it comes to any relationships you cant go back.
And you shouldnt hone on when the relationship was healthy and how do you get that back.
The best people are the ones who know when something is over.
The ones who let certain people go because they have to.
The ones who know when the relationship was something good and sometimes good things dont always last.
