Honestly, you werent sure if it would happen.
Yet slowly, you took your time to heal and figure things out for yourself.
You found yourself ready to give it another spin.
@jesych
You could see the potential, the future all laid out in something beautiful.
The problem was that they told you that they just werent ready to be something with you.
Especially if they tell you they want to, but they just arent ready.
Its not enough, though, babe.
Its not enough because relationships require two people actively working on themselves and desiring to work together on that.
If someone is saying they arent ready, it can mean a few things.
That they arent ready for you, specifically.
That they arent prepared for the kind of commitment you want.
We will never have everything in our lives in order, it will always be a little messy.
Its okay to recognize that and call out fear when we see it, with compassion.
And even if they could, that doesnt matter until they realize it themselves.
In the end, if a person isnt ready and they tell you, then you better accept that.
It doesnt mean you dont care about them, or that things could never work out someday.
But you cant sit around holding onto hope of what could be.
Someone ready to meet you on your level and explore what that looks like with you.
I promise it will be so worth it and so wonderful, you wont be able to believe it.
