Calling it quits is easier when it was never love.
Yet, even then many of us find it difficult to let go.
Or have you given enough, and need to leave to give yourself the respect you deserve?
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Calling it quits is easier when it was never love.
Yet, even then many of us find it difficult to let go.
Maybe still do love… You cant run from something thats within you.
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You cant run, because the more you try, the worse it will run you down.
Thats always the case.
Keep running and you will either explode or implode.
you better take control of your life and make the decisions that need to be made.
The only question that remains is: What decision should you make?
Thats an excellent question.
Hopefully this post will help you make better a decision, and help you help yourself.
Stick Around When He/She Needs Space; Call It Quits When He/She Doesnt Care.
Youre going to be with you for the rest of your life.
What that means is that youre going to need your space just as he or she does.
Dont look at it as them wanting to get away from you.
Theyre just trying to get better acquainted with themselves.
They need to give themselves a certain amount of attention its normal.
Unfortunately, not everyone is very good at communicating this.
Thats why we have to be understanding.
Dont give up on something that can still be good, but dont sell yourself short either.
Leave When Hes/Shes Disrespectful.
Respect is the foundation of every good relationship, romantic or other.
You and the person youre seeing, both deserve to be treated with love, compassion, and understanding.
Stick Around When The Good Times Outweigh The Bad.
This one is just simple arithmetic.
The idea is that you want to be happy.
But we know that it isnt possible to always be happy its literally impossible.
You cant have one without the other.
What this means is that the goal isnt to always be happy.
Youre going to have unpleasant experiences with your partner.
So dont be stupid and call it quits when youre just hitting a little rough patch.
However, if the bad times outnumber the good times, then you really need to reassess the situation.
But its something that the both of you will need to work on.
Stick Around If He/She Wants To Make It Work; Call It Quits When He/She Doesnt.
Are you BOTH willing to work on your relationship?
Im sure youve heard the adage, It takes two to tango.
But do you know why that is?
Why not the waltz, foxtrot, or cha-cha?
Theres a constant push and pull.
Because you cant let go.
Because you love each other.
Can you and the one youre with handle all of that, all while keeping hold of each other?
Sure… but only if youre both holding on as hard as it’s possible for you to.
If either one of you begins to let go, the dance falls apart.
Do you know why people are amazing?
Because theres just so much potential.
Each of us has the potential of becoming an incredible individual every last one of us.
However, two things to keep in mind.
The first: not everyone will manage to tap into that potential.
Some of us wont do it.
Not because life doesnt allow us to do it, but because we choose not to.
If youre not great, its only your own fault.
Your picture of a perfect them may not coincide with theres.
Theyre their own project, just like youre your own.
If youre going to work on anyone, it should be you.
