She glances at you while belittling people she counts as her closest family or friends.
She is the bang out who invites them to her wedding but prays they wont show up.
She clicks like on their social media posts, but not because she cares.
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She is judging them because they havent traveled enough and arent worldly enough to her standards.
You wonder if its just you who feels her negative energy because she triggers deep emotion in you.
Or are you the one at fault here because your expectations of other people are too high?
Oftentimes, it turns out to be a close friend or family member.
We cant control the actions of people, only how we react to the energy we receive from them.
We give others the opportunity to feed us negative energy by not removing them or calling them out.
We focus too much on how they spread negative vibes or are always taking advantage of others.
We need to stop focusing on it, because the negative energy cuts deeper into our soul.
If you dont cut them off or at least stop pleasing them, you also kill your self-respect.
You may venture to be kind and set boundaries, but the negative energy spreads.
While we all have heard of the term fake friend, this also applies to family members.
Sometimes its the family who turns out to be the least trustworthy.
Its hurtful and sad, but once you understand and accept this, you heal.
You feel the Universe is on your side with the decision once you realize they wont contact you either.
You become resilient and understand that lack of sincerity and tenderness in people is a trigger for deep emotions.
You cant live through life without meeting people who put you in uncomfortable situations.
These triggers are there to give you clarity, guidance, and intuition.
The Universe helps you by keeping your distance.
You have now learned to feed your soul instead of your shadow.
