Our tribe shows up when we are willing to first be alone.
These are not fairytales.
They are not the plants we over-water, or the people we have to force ourselves to be.

@eatandlove
We dont find joy when we are desperate for joy.
We dont find love when we are desperate for love.
We dont find ease when we are desperate for ease.

When we are holding most tightly to these things, were buoying off of fear.
The truth is that when your life isnt coming together, yes, something does need to change.
But moving farther away from who you really are is not the answer.
Getting into a relationship for the sake of it is not better than being single.
Being wealthy isnt worth it if the way you have to earn it nearly kills you.
You unshackle your chains.
You open up the possibility of actually finding love, because you arent attached to the wrong person anymore.
I need you to know that these are not pipe dreams.
You have to be willing to be isolated if youre going to be able to find the right tribe.