But you don’t want to run away on a whim and end up hurting yourself either.

When you find your forever person before youre ready to settle down, theres no winning.

When you find your forever person before youre ready to settle down, you have to be careful.

When You Find Your Forever Person Before You’re Ready To Settle Down

Jonathan Borba

You dont want to jump into a relationship youre not ready for and end up hurting the other person.

But you dont want to run away on a whim and end up hurting yourself either.

You have to stop and think for a moment.

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You have to weigh the pros and cons of each option.

You have to decide what is best for yourself at this moment in time.

Most people are worried theyre going to find their forever person too late or wont find them at all.

You cant magically make yourself have a change of heart.

It can feel overwhelming.

It can feel like youre skipping ahead to your adult life without having time to really experience your youth.

It can feel like youre leaping toward a milestone ahead of schedule, before youre fully ready.

If you arent ready for a relationship right now, youre under no obligation to enter one.

it’s possible for you to set your own pace.

you could take your time.

You dont have to rush.

You have to decide what means the most to you.

You have to decide which regret you would rather live with in the end.