You want to present your person with the best possible version of yourself.
This isnt because youre worried theyre going to run if you continue acting the way youve been acting.
Youre confident they arent going anywhere.
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Youre positive they accept you for exactly who you are, baggage and all.
You want to change.
You want to do better.
The reason youre working on yourself is because youwantto work on yourself.
Its because you genuinely believe your person deserves your absolute best.
When you find your forever person, you put more and more effort into self-care.
You dont let yourself spiral.
You dont let yourself rot.
You take better care of yourself mentallyandphysically because you want to live a long, long life with them.
You want to be there for them through the good moments and the bad.
They dont want to see you hanging your head, feeling insecure.
They want you to love yourself.
They want you to see yourself the way they see you.
They want you to be happy, even when they arent in the room with you.
You work on your abandonment issues and trust issues.
You put an end to your unhealthy habits.
You stop yourself from choosing theeasypath over therightpath.
You stop falling into old, toxic habits.
You are never going to be perfect and your person doesntexpectyou to be perfect.
But when you are in the right relationship, you dont want to settle for being adecentpartner.
You want to be the best partner you could possibly be because they deserve it.
They deserve the healthiest sides of you.
