Do not make them feel like there is something wrong with them for needing help in social situations.
They do not want you to feel like you are being held back by them.
They do not want you to grow to resent them.
Tony Ciampa
They do not want to be a bother.
You should not accuse them of overreacting.
You should not tell them to calm down.
You should not roll your eyes and shake your head.
You should attempt to see where they are coming from.
You should consider their emotions valid.
Just because you do not share their fears does not mean their fears are silly.
They already feel like something is wrong with them.
They already feel like an outcast.
You should not worsen those fears.
You should not intensify their insecurities.
If you cannot handle a relationship with them, leave.
Do not stick around to make them feel bad.
Do not send them on guilt trips.
Do not cause more harm than good.
When you love someone with anxiety, you should make them feel comfortable.
Allow them to express their vulnerability.
They are never going to let their guards down completely.
When you love someone with anxiety, accept their anxiety.
Realize it is part of the package.
Do not fault them for something they cannot control.
