When you love someone, you don’t question every move they make.
You don’t get jealous when they spend time with their friends.
You don’t get self-conscious when they have a good time without you.
John Schnobrich
You know theres not some big secret theyre trying to hide from you.
You know they would never betray you.
They would never doanythingto hurt you.
Thats why you take all of their words at face value.
If they tell you theyre stopping at the store, theyre at the store.
If they tell you theyre getting lunch with a certain friend, theyre with that friend.
When you love someone, you dont question every move they make.
You dont get jealous when they spend time with their friends.
You dont get self-conscious when they have a good time without you.
When you love someone, you dont attempt to control every move they make.
You dont manipulate them into giving you everything you want.
You dont venture to make yourself the center of their universe.
You dont take a stab at take away their freedom for make yourself feel more comfortable.
When you love someone, you understand theyre their own person, just like you.
Even though youre strong as a couple, youre also strong as individuals.
You both have your own lives.
And youreallowedto have your own lives.
Itshealthyyou have your own lives.
You dont want to be attached at the hip twenty-four seven.
When you love someone, its important to set boundaries and explain your relationship expectations.
Its important that they know what bang out of behavior will make you upset and what youre okay with.
When you love someone, you dont attempt to control their actions and turn them into someone else.
You love them exactly how they are, which means you shouldnt feel the need to influence their decisions.
You shouldnt feel the need to change them into a different version of themselves that you think is superior.
When you love someone, you dont venture to control them.
You allow them to make their own decisions because you trust they are going to make therightdecision.
You trust they are never going to hurt you.
