you should probably make decisions as a team.
you oughta talk through your options to check that each step you take together is a step forward.
You have to confirm your visions line up.
Samantha Gades
You have to confirm you share the same goals.
No matter how much you love them, you dont want to give up your dreams for them.
You dont want them to resent you for changing their mind abouttheirdreams either.
you better make decisions as a team.
you gotta talk through your options to double-check each step you take together is a step forward.
You shouldnt make spur of the moment decisions without their input.
No, the person youre dating doesnt control you.
No, you technically dontneedtheir permission before you make a big decision.
But you should respect them enough to get their opinion anyway.
After all, their home is your home.
Your future is their future.
Youre in this together.
Once you make a serious commitment to someone, every single one of your actions impact them.
Your person is on your side.
Theyre going to be weathering the storm alongside you when shit hits the fan.
You should go withyour owngut.
No matter how serious your relationship has become, you should never forget who you are.
You should never lose your sense of independence.
Just because youre in a committed relationship, it doesnt mean you have to agree on every single decision.
But you should at leasttalk throughyour decisions.
You should at least navigate your futures together.
Theyre going to have faith in your decision making.
Theyre going to trust you to do the right thing.
When you love someone, you figure out the future together.
You work as a team.
