You listen to what they have to say and give a shot to understand where theyre coming from.
You allow them to speak their mind without cutting them off to defend yourself.
When you have to step back and allow them to process their emotions on their own time.
Toa Heftiba
You cant rush them through their grief.
You cant tell them when they need to stop moping, when enough is enough.
you better be there for them when they want you and understand that everyone moves at their own pace.
You cant force them to be happy again after theyve gone through a rough experience.
When you love someone, you allow them to speak from the heart.
You wont discount their emotions.
You wont treat them like an inconvenience.
You want to be there for them.
You want to know what theyve been going through.
You never want them to feel alone when youre standing by their side.
After all, your feelings about them wont change on the hard days.
You dont want them to hide things to protect you or avoid upsetting you.
You dont want any secrets to exist between the two of you.
When you love someone, you encourage them to speak their mind.
You genuinely want to know them on a deeper level.
You want them to trust you with every little piece of themselves.
