You should want to meet their highest expectations, not their minimum expectations.

You dont test how much they can handle.

You shouldnt want to bring your person anywhereneartheir breaking point.

When You Love Someone, You Shouldn’t Test Their Limits

Daniel Foster

You shouldnt want to be the cause of their unhappiness.

You shouldnt want to be the reason why theyre close to tears, close to coming undone.

You shouldnt be searching for shortcuts and loopholes.

Article image

When you love someone, you should have your best interestsas a coupleat heart, not your own.

You shouldnt behave selfishly.

You shouldnt be doing whatever you want, regardless of how they might feel about your actions.

You shouldnt be advancing your own happiness at the cost oftheirhappiness.

If your happiness cannot go hand-in-hand, then you shouldnt be together.

When you love someone, their happiness should matter as much as your own.

You should want them to be in a good mood.

You should want them to be in high spirits.

You shouldnt be comfortable putting them through hell, as long as you get your way in the end.

It should hurt you to hurt them.

It should be hard to see them cry.

When you love someone, you shouldnt test their limits.

You shouldwantto do right by them.

You shouldwantto meet their highest expectations, not their minimum expectations.

When you love someone, you should be willing to put in the effort to make them feel loved.

You shouldnt be looking for the easy way out.

You shouldnt be trying to bend rules and break promises.

You should be giving your person everything they deserve.

You shouldnt want to set the bar too low.

You shouldnt want to get away with murder.

You dont want to be a so-so partner, a bearable partner, a decent partner.

You want to be the best possible partner for your person.

You never want them to feel like theyre settling in the relationship.

You want them to feel like theyre lucky theyve found the person theyre meant to spend forever alongside.