You shouldnt avoid talking about serious topics because you are worried about sparking an argument.
When you love someone, you have to be blunt with them.
You shouldnt give them the silent treatment until they guess what is bothering you.
Kevin Laminto
You shouldnt expect them to read your mind.
Playing games is only a waste of your time.
It will only prolong the argument.
It will only give your anger a chance to build and build until you explode.
You shouldnt start screaming at them.
You shouldnt start making accusations.
You shouldnt disrespect them because you wouldnt like it if they did the same to you.
They probably didnt evenrealizeyou were hurt until you said something.
That is why you have to speak up.
You have to be upfront about your emotions.
They will continue to make the same mistakes again and again because they wont realize it was a mistake.
You shouldnt hold back your emotions because you are worried about causing drama or starting a fight.
You should release those emotions to improve your relationship, to grow stronger as a team.
to get to make a relationship last, you have to have some hard conversations.
You have to be vulnerable with each other.
Otherwise, you are going to end up on two completely different pages.
Otherwise, you are going to grow apart and wont even realize its happening until its too late.
