You have faith that youre both doing the best you’re free to.
You trust that youre both working hard to keep your relationship strong.
You know everything is going to balance itself out eventually, so you dont need to worry.
Sophia Sinclair
When you love someone, you dont treat every single chore like some sort of competition.
You dont count up their failings to hold it over their head the next time you have an argument.
You shouldnt be treating your relationship like a game where you’ve got the option to score points.
You shouldnt be doing nice things simply so it’s possible for you to get nice things in return.
That kind of thought process can become dangerous because not every week is going to be equal.
Some weeks, your person is going to be off their game.
Other weeks, your person is going to go above and beyond what you would ever expect from them.
When you love someone, you dont treat them like your competition.
You treat them like a teammate.
You recognize youre on the same side.
Youre recognize youre supposed tosupporteach other, notfightagainst each other.
At the end of the day, you should both want the same thing.
To keep your relationship strong.
When you love someone, you cannotwinwhen theylose.
You are eitherbothwinners because when your person succeeds, you succeed.
Or yourebothlosers because when your person suffers, you suffer.
No matter what happens in your relationship, you have to remember youre meant to work as a team.
Youre meant to sit on the same set of bleachers.
When you love someone, you dont want to make each other feel bad.
You dont want to fault each other over your weaknesses.
You want to combine your strengths so you can build a strong, long-lasting relationship.
When you love someone, youre on the same side.
So start acting like it.
