When you love someone, you don’t accuse them of being overdramatic or oversensitive.
You don’t act like they’re making a big deal out of nothing.
You don’t discredit their feelings, their fears, their struggles.
Wendy Liu
You dont leave them alone to deal with their problems while you have fun with your friends.
You dont disappear as soon as your relationship stops seeming soperfect.
When you love someone, you stick with them through it all.
You help them when theyre struggling.
You let them lean on you when they cry.
It doesnt matter if their issue technically has nothing to do with you.
If its bothering them, then its bothering you.
Their pain is your pain because youre a team.
Youre in this together.
When you love someone, you dont abandon them when helping would be an inconvenience for you.
You dont ditch them when a better opportunity comes along.
When you love someone, you dont push their problems to the background.
You dont leave them to handle their shit on their own.
You dont put more emphasis on yourself than on them.
When you love someone, you dont abandon them when your relationship is going through a rough patch.
You dont put them through hell while youre out enjoying the good life.
When you love someone, you dont abandon them under the assumption theyll be perfectly fine.
You dont accuse them of being overdramatic or oversensitive.
You dont act like theyre making a big deal out of nothing.
You dont discredit their feelings, their fears, their struggles.
When you love someone, you dont abandon them, because they trust you to do the right thing.
Youre the person theyre supposed to be able to count on.
Youre the person who is supposed to want what is best for them.
Youre the person who is supposed to give a shit.
When you love someone, your relationship isnt always going to be easy.
Your person isnt always going to be in a chirpy, happy-go-lucky mood.
They arent always going to be on their best behavior.
Sometimes, youre going to see them bawling.
Sometimes, youre going to see them scared.
Sometimes, youre going to see them angry.
You wont abandon them.
You wont let them go through anything on their own.
Youll stand by their side.
Youll help them through everything.
