Youre around for the low ones too.
You have to sit there on the floor with your person while theyre crying their eyes out.
You cant turn your pain into a competition.
Elliott Dunning
You have to consider every single one of their feelings valid.
When you love someone, their problems become your problems.
You cant leave them to deal with some horrible tragedy while you run off with your friends.
You cant act like whatever theyre struggling with has nothing to do with you.
Youre dating them, so itdoeshave something to do with you.
You never let them down, especially not in their most emotionally messy moments.
Sometimes, you have to make sacrifices for them when thing go haywire.
You cant wait until its convenient for you to start acting like you care about them.
When you love someone, there might be teary phone calls at two in the morning.
There might be favors asked at midnight.
There might be frantic texts in the middle of your work day.
The shit your person is going through cannot always be controlled.
They cant always call when its convenient for you.
Sometimes, theyre going to need you at the most inconvenient times.
When you love someone, you dont get to pick and choose when you pay attention to them.
You have to support them through whatever theyre experiencing.
You have to be their rock, their backup, their shoulder to lean on.
Youre there through everything.
