Sometimes, its hard to know what will work until you start dating.
You just have to grow together to see if you still want to do that.
However, there are other times when you absolutely need to just cut the cord – and quick.
kaitlynzuverink
You just have to grow together to see if you still want to do that.
However, there are other times when you absolutely need to just cut the cord and quick.
Here are 45 ways you might know if he needs to go.
If he doesnt understand what no means today, he is going to magically learn it tomorrow.
He may very well know what he is doing and mean it.
If he cannot respect what you tell him in confidence, do not excuse that.
kaitlynzuverink
He stops answering messages, sends your calls to voicemail, makes you wonder.
If you cant count on him, stop counting on him.
You know by now that when its good, its great and when its bad, its awful.
He is usually vague and hard to understand.
He really sucks at telling the truth and hates it even more when you catch him in his lies.
He should honor the fact that you had a life before him and its still there.
First of all, he should be kind to you.
If he has make-up suggestions, clothing tips, ideas on new perfume, etc.
Habits dont change overnight.
If he is selfish and cannot share, he will not start thinking of your needs now.
Anyone with a take it all mentality, cannot be trusted to share at all.
When you point out where he could have done something differently, he gets defensive and upset.
He yells at you and cant be reasoned with.
People who know you and people who dont tell you that they think you might do better.
Maybe they see something that you cannot.
But only because people keep letting him.
He is a firm believer that things have to be done his way.
If he is always changing the rules, manipulating the situation, and is not fair do not ignore.
Sometimes, your body just knows.
Speedracer should have been his middle name.
A guy like this will be unreasonable disappointed and wont be prepared to process your shortcomings.
Inversely, if all he wants to do is fix you…thats no good either.
You are not a project.
You are a person.
He needs to see that or you better stop seeing him.
If he ever tries to make you want it when you dont…thats a waving red flag.
Dont let him ignore you, let him go.
Heres a hint: you may be the next psycho he rants about to someone else.
I wouldnt advise sticking around for the show.
you could give a guy a lot of things, but motivation is not one.
A lazy man wont be cute for long.
If his family is not safe with him, you wont be either.
Swings are great for swinging, but constant mood swings are not something you have to entertain constantly.
They also are not the safest thing to be too close to.
This one never seems to matter until your job and social lives are affected.
Thats hard on its own.
The issue with him being a cheater is that his perspective is bent to favor shortcuts.
If he likes to cross diagonally always, chances are he is not a fan of playing fair.
Your social media accounts belong to you.
He should not demand to control your social media interactions.
Guilt tripping is an awful and common manipulative tactic that never ends well.
He means it, and its mean.
If no one in his life has ever heard about or seen you then that is no good.
A guy worth keeping around is proud when he finds a woman like you.
If he is not, cut him loose.
Insecurity is not attractive and will drain you.
The worst company makes you feel alone and yucky about especially when they are present.
No matter what he is going through, big or small.
If he cant talk about it with you and fails at communication in general…that is a warning.
If he does not play by the rules, then he will not play by the rules.
This cannot be stressed enough.
People need grace for people.
Especially, if he expects all the grace in the world.
Double standards are no fun.
He loves making fun of you and other people but cannot be made fun of in any way.
He gets defensive and almost cruel in response.
Guys like that are no fun.
And you, dont need that.
No one wants a selfish person.
This is not a good trait.
This probably is a big reason why your friends and family dislike him so much.
