You stop blaming yourself for things.
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Updated 8 years ago,August 18, 2017
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Your relationship with yourself improves.
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You start to love yourself.
You stop looking for love to fill youremptinessand instead fill those parts with self-love and appreciation.
You let go of toxic people.
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The casual hookup who only ever leads you on.
The person you love and care about but isnt pushing you to go anywhere.
The relationship that is emotionally abusive.
The person you are giving your best to but they arent reciprocating it.
Sometimes the hardest but most essential thing to do is cut out certain people.
Suddenly the people you are choosing are ones who are pushing you to the next level.
The ones who just get it and are on the same wavelength as you.
You attract quality people.
You stop answering anyone like that.
You begin to truly fight for yourself and the things you believe in.
When you start believing in yourself, you stop believing in other peoples negativity or doubts.
They might say things that are negative and unkind but youve finally stopped listening.
You stick up for yourself and if they dont change you walk away.
You become more confident.
Confidenceradiates in all parts of your life.
From your job to your career to every life choice you make.
When youre confident, what you focus on is everything you bring to the table not what you lack.9.
You stop explaining yourself.
When you are confident in the choices you make you dont need to apologize for them.
Yes, you apologize when youre wrong but you stop apologizing for little things like being yourself.
You stop waiting around.
You stop believing lies and excuses.
Because when you are sure of yourself you dont want to associate with people who arent.
You let go of that relationship and that person who keeps you on their string.
You let go of anyone who isnt a YES person.
Youre no longer jealous.
In the past, you might have walked into the room and compared yourself to others.
You dont settle for average.
Your standards might be high and what many consider unrealistic but you dont change them.
Instead, you hold your ground and anyone who doesnt meet those standards gets kicked to the curb.
You let go of baggage that isnt yours to bear.
You let go of the past and other peoples problems.
You dont let it haunt you anymore.
Instead, youve learned to truly live in the moment.15.
You stop blaming yourself for things.
Instead, you take responsibility for the things that are within your control.
Everything else stops being your problem.
You become selectivity selfish.
Being selfish isnt a bad thing.
Putting yourself first is what youve needed to do for a while now.
Youve started to do it and you realize you should have always been your number one priority.
You stop choosing negativity.
None of those things add value to your life or someone elses.
Choosing to be positive isnt just a choice its something you have to practice.
You stop succumbing to peer pressure.
FOMO isnt something that dictates your life anymore.
Every choice you make is based on will this make me happy?
And if the answer is no you dont go that way.19.
You stop blaming other people for your circumstances.
When you start having self-respect you take control of your life.
You stop trying to win people over.
You get to a point where you realize I dont care what people think of me.
When you like yourself the important people will too.
You make overall healthier choices.
And its not just choosing to go to the gym that day or eating a salad.
Its staying in on a Friday night instead of blacking out.
