Sometimes, you feel like youre falling behind, like you should have done more by now.
When you match on a dating app?
On the first date?
Yoann Boyer
During your first make-out session?
It never feels like the right time.
Youre not sure whether its going to be a deal-breaker.
When youre a virgin in your twenties, most people assume its on purpose.
But honestly, there isntreallya reason.
Youve just never reached that point with anyone.
It can go one of two ways.
When youre a virgin in your twenties, there are moments when youre proud and moments when youre embarrassed.
But when your friends talk about sex, you feel like you might never join in on the conversation.
You feel like youre an outcast.
After all, there are friends of yoursgetting marriedand youve still never reached all the bases.
Other people have been having sex foryears.
You know you arent going to get it right on your first try.
You know you arent going to be able to compare to their exes who know exactly what theyre doing.
But virginity is a social construct.
The right person isnt going to care.
Theyre going to love you and love having sex with you whether you have experience or not.
