When you are confident you stop giving yourself to people who arent reciprocating what you have to offer.
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Updated 8 years ago,August 8, 2017
Confidence is kind of tricky sometimes.
Its takes a bit of time to build.
Leo H
It takes learning to love yourself for everyone who didnt.
It comes in being your own best friend when someone didnt rise to the occasion.
You let them go with the not explanation because you dont owe them one.
Leo H
When youre confident you ignore the people who arent pushing you to the next level.
You learn the meaning of quality over quantity and live by that.
When youre confident you stop letting other people affect your emotions.
When youre confident you finally have a healthy relationship.
Because the foundation of any relationship you have is a good one you have with yourself.
You dont tolerate mistreatment or games.
You just stop associating with anyone who still is about that.
You focus on the person who wants to focus on you.
When youre confident you simply say no and dont even explain why.
When youre confident you no longer feel FOMO.
You do things for yourself and dont even care about what everyone else is up to.
When youre confident you make choices that benefit your happiness and not someone elses.
You arent thinking about anyone but yourself and thats okay.
When youre confident you dont show up to things you dont want to go to.
When youre confident you DGAF about who you cut off.
When youre confident you dont care about what people are saying about you.
When youre confident you quit.
Quit the job that doesnt make you happy.
Quit the relationships that arent going anywhere.
Quit the life that makes you feel trapped.
Theres this freedom youll come to be obsessed with when you get to that point.
When you are confident you stop blaming people for things.
You learn to take responsibility for your own life and the choices you make.
If something isnt right, its up to you to change it.
When you are confident you stop giving yourself to people who arent reciprocating what you have to offer.
Becoming confident both in yourself and the life you lead will change everything.
You wont have bad relationships or drama.
You wont be upset over someones actions.
Because at the end of the day it’s possible for you to only control yourself.
But if you do it right how you treat yourself will reflect how others do.
