you could’t rely on them to handle all of your problems for you.
you’re free to’t forget you are supposed to be a team.
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Updated 6 years ago,June 3, 2019
Everyone struggles.
Roberto Nickson
Everyone has off days.
They know you cant be on your best behavior all the time.
They know you cant do fifty things at once.
They are going to pick up some extra chores.
They are going to carry some of your weight.
You have to figure out what is causing you so much distress and work on fixing it.
Of course, you cant allow your person to hold your extra weight forever.
You cant expect them to take care of ninety-nine percent of the relationship throughout theentirerelationship.
You cant get lazy.
You cant become a slacker.
You cant assume they will do everything for you while you sit around moping.
You cant get used to your person swooping in when something is wrong and playing the hero.
You cant rely on them to handle all of your problems for you.
You cant forget you are supposed to be a team.
They arent supposed to be carrying you.
You are supposed to be carrying each other.
You are supposed to be there for each other.
When youre not pulling your weight in a relationship, its okay, as long as its temporary.
As long as you are willing to do as much for them as they have been doing for you.
When youre in a strong, healthy relationship, its impossible to have a good day every single day.
Thats why your responsibilities arent always going to be split evenly.
Your roles arent always going to be equally balanced.
The scales shouldnt be tipped to the same side all the time.
