The problem is, you never realize an almost is an almost at the time.
In the moment, you think you’re building a relationship.
You think you’re going to become an official couple soon.
Taisiia Stupak
So they just start dating someone else one day.
Or they ghost you out of the blue.
Either way, they leave you to cope with your emotions on your own.
You dont get a heads up before your heartbreak.
It hits you out of nowhere.
Almosts can be the hardest people to get over because there was so muchanticipationwithout a lot ofpayoff.
The problem is, you never realize an almost is an almost at the time.
In the moment, you think youre building a relationship.
You think youre going to become an official couple soon.
Almosts can be the hardest people to get over because it was more than sexual.
That means you were honest to goodness friends.
You had a lot in common.
You made each other laugh.
You trusted each other with secrets.
Sure, you flirted with each other, but it was more than that.
You werent just attracted to each other.
You actually liked hanging out with each other.
Almosts can be the hardest people to get over because thewhat ifnever goes away.
Would you be a married couple now?
Would you be broken up by now?
Or would you be in the same exact place you are now?
Its impossible to tell but its hard not to think about.
You never even placed a label on what you were.
Its hard to cope with your emotions because a part of you is embarrassed by them.
You dont want to admit someone meant so much to you when you clearly meant so little to them.
Almosts can be the hardest people to get over because they linger in your head and in your heart.
When you lose an almost, you lose more than a relationship that could have been.
You also lose a friend.
You lose someone you thought would stick around.
You lose someone you werent planning on letting go.
