If youve been single for a long time, youll be skilled at being independent.

This means youre well used to doing things by yourself at this stage.

It means you wont be relying on your partner for every single thing you do.

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Matt Glm

And its important you are aware of these positives so that you could take full advantage of them.

Lets now lookat what these are…

Some (or all) of the following may apply to you.

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Matt Glm

Youve Got Your Priorities Straight.

Too many people enter relationships just for the sake of being with someone.

They want someone for valentines day, or to go to parties or weddings with.

Its a sign you are someone who has their priorities straight.

Past Relationships Have Time To Fade Away.

When we are in a relationship, our partners interests and personality influence us in ways we dont realize.

Youll Be A Less Codependent Person.

If youve been single for a long time, youll be skilled at being independent.

This means youre well used to doing things by yourself at this stage.

This is a positive thing that will make your next relationship healthier.

It means you wont be relying on your partner for every single thing you do.

Your next partner will be thankful for this even if they dont realise it.

Being Mentally Ready Increases Success.

Preparation like this though …takes time.

So dont fall into the trap of being jealous of them!

When is being single for a long time a bad thing?

…Or do you rely on friends of family too much for these things?