Do you want to keep the people you love?
The people you care about?
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Updated 7 years ago,January 5, 2018
We are human.
Andrew Welch
Sometimes we want things our way that we forget what the other person want.
We even forget why we were there at the first place.
How come we stayed at this situation for a long time?
Andrew Welch
You say the most toxic things and turn your relationship to be the ugliest thing in the world.
Not even worth a stop button or a reset to make things right again.
Not even worth a second thought.
You want them gone when you fought so hard to be with them.
Like I said,we are human.
We say things before we completely think it through and analyze if thats what we actually want to say.
We do things we dont mean just because we dont know when enough is enough.
Practice the Pause.
Where you stop and think,Is our relationship worth wasting for this kind of argument?
When you actually have the time to deliberate how much you value this person to hurt them.
When you realize that storms, hurricanes and even earthquakes pass.
But then your ride slows down after a wild rush, you are okay.
You are alive and suddenly everyone becomes too quiet and you are overflowed with sea of tranquility.
You will remember that that is how it feels like to be with them.
That is the Pause.
Stop, look and listen.
For giving you more than you have asked for.
Pause before you lose them.
