And you like him too which makes it even better!
Or maybe he flat-out ghosts you.
And you have whiplash from this sudden, unexpected turn of events.
Everything was going so well… how could it change so abruptly?
That isnt helping, its only hurting you.
This is the truth about what makes a super-interested guy lose interest.
You were trying too hard to win him over.
There is no greater turn-off than desperation.
Trying to win a guy over is never a good strategy and rarely works.
When you see a guy as a prize to be won it puts you in agenda mode.
You cant just be present and connect with him.
Youre weighing everything you say.
Youre writing and re-writing texts and sending them to your girlfriends for approval before sending them to him.
He was never that into you in the first place.
Dont mistake flirtation and a little bit of attraction for all-out interest.
Or maybe he is interested in you … but it just isnt enough to sustain a relationship.
And thats OK. Thats not a loss.
In the beginning, he cant possibly know you well enough to truly like you.
In the beginning, all you have is the potential of what could be.
Dating is merely a discovery process, its not a measure of your worth or worthiness.
So what looks and feels like him losing interest, is really just him discovering youre not a match.
Youre choosing the wrong men.
Dont have a go at play savior here.
Its important to look within and look at your patterns.
If you only choose guys who cant love you… then maybe you feel unworthy of love.
A lot of these feelings are rooted in childhood.
Your vibe is off.
Your vibe is essentially what determines how attractive you are.
A vibe is something created within that radiates outward.
If youre stressing and obsessing over the relationship, he will pick up on it and its not attractive.
Worrying about a relationship like this activates your fears and insecurities.
Youre worried he wont reciprocate your feelings and you will be alone once again.
He has come to represent something bigger than just being a guy you like.
No wonder youre so nervous… you have a lot at stake here!
Men fall in love based on how they feel around you.
You dont connect with who he truly is.
The secret to standing out in a sea of endless options is to connect to someone at their core.
But that list can describe millions of people!
What is it you like about him?
What makes him unique and special?
What do you know about him that you cant discover from his social media accounts?
It comes down to this: Can you connect to him at his core?
Do you see who he truly is?
Are you just checking boxes off a list or are you genuinely interested in building a meaningful connection?
No man wants to feel like hes filling a slot that any other guy could occupy.
