It’s easier for us to accept heartbreak than it is for us to accept love.
When we find out someone is interested in us, we assume there must be a catch.
We think theyre leading us on.

Adrianna Van Groningen
We think theyre screwing with us.
We think theyre lying to make it hook up with us.
Even once were in a serious relationship, its hard for us to feel comfortable.

We get paranoid when our person comes home too late.
We feel insecure when a prettier woman walks into the room.
We worry our person will wake up one day and realize theyre out of our league.
It doesnt matter how well our person treats us.
It doesnt matter how much we trust them when they say theyre never going to hurt us.
Its easier for us to accept heartbreak than it is for us to accept love.
We are harder on ourselves than we have any right to be.
We play the part of our own worst enemy.
Girls who dont love themselves have trust issues because we arent able to see the beauty within ourselves.
We only see our flaws.
We see the worst pieces of ourselves.
Our instinct is to run because we assume this is too good to be true.
We assume everyone sees us the same way we see ourselves.
Its hard for us to accept compliments.
Its hard for us to believe someone has deemed us worthy enough to date.
It can take us a long time to learn the mean things we say about ourselves arent necessarily true.