Trust me, I get it.
Why havent I heard from him today, isnt he thinking about me?…
Why are his answers so short and vague, is he not into me anymore?….
Why did he initiate a conversation and then just disappear?
Ive asked all the questions and have experienced the roller coaster of emotionsand overthinking that they produce.
Why do we get so wound up and stressed and anxious?
Here they are…
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And we measure other people against a yardstick determined by our own personal codes of conduct.
For instance, if a girl likes a guy she may want to text frequently.
Most women can do this, men typically cant (at least not the ones with demanding jobs).
The reason women get so frustrated is because they expect men to experiencerelationshipsthe same way they do.
Men, in general, are goal oriented while women are process oriented.
For women, talking is a way to bond and connect.
For men, talking is just a means to an end.
What matters more to men is the quality of the time spent with another person.
Fear
At the heart of why girls get into such a tizzy over the whole texting issue is fear.
I think you get the point.
Just think about the guys who were into you that you didnt really like.
There was nothing at stake… and if you heard from him, cool… if not then whatever.
And if he does fade into the texting abyss never to be heard from again, then whatever!
