If you like this person, you want to meet up with them face-to-face to see whether youre compatible.
However, there are some benefits to this process, which some people callslow dating.
Theres less pressure.
Clay Banks
If youre scared of getting your heart crushed again, then texting is relatively harmless.
Its a low-pressure way to get yourself back in the dating game.
You dont have to make small talk off the top of your head.
You dont have to worry about what youre wearing or whether youre making enough eye contact.
it’s possible for you to answer their messages on your own time.
you might get to know them at your own pace.
You already feel comfortable with them.
You have time to think about whether theyre really right for you.
There will be more of an emphasis on personality than looks.
The rest of your conversations will revolve around your thoughts, dreams, and opinions.
If they are boring you or are incompatible with you, their looks wont distract you from that fact.
Youll be able to make an unbiased opinion about whether they are a good match for you.
And youll trust that they like your personality, too.
Otherwise, they wouldnt be able to keep the conversation going for so many hours.
You wont have to rearrange your schedule to fit them in until youre positive that theyre worth the trouble.
Unless you really want to take things to the next level.
