We learn so much during our mid to late twenties.
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Updated 6 years ago,July 21, 2019
We learnso muchduring our mid to late twenties.
We also learn a lot about the people we surround ourselves with.
Alexander Mils
We eventually learn whos here for the long haul and whos just here for a temporary stay.
We learn who truly has our back and who doesnt.
We learn who has resentment towards us and who genuinely wants to see us succeed.
All of this learning comes withtime.
These people are on the toxic side of the scale.
You probably dont know they even carry this quality until their true colors are (eventually) revealed.
We often become upset or hurt that these individuals cant just be happy for us.
This is a happy moment, I just want them to be there with me.
Theyre miserable with their own lives.
They choose to feel jealousy and envyinsteadof just empowering others with what they may have to offer.
Theyre immature and dont have agrowth mindset.
Their behavior is child-like and theyre set in their ways.
Theyve made a lot ofpoor choices.
They have resentment towards you or others, particularly when it comes to other peoples achievements or celebratory moments.
They only see things their way and will never venture to see anyone elses side of things.
Narcissists alsomake everything about themand often put down those around them.
They simply SUCK as a human being and need some serious self-reflection and re-evaluating.
They love starting drama or gossiping negatively about others.
They were never shownhow toand never reallyneeded tobe happy for anyone else.
They carried this with them through adulthood.
Remember to keepliving your life.
Let them be stuck and unwilling to change, theyre only hurting themselves in the long run.
Just do you.Keep being proudof yourself and your accomplishments, keep celebrating the joy.
Those who truly care about you will be right by your side for all the happy moments.
Recognize who IS happy and who IS always there for you, stop focusing on who ISNT.
Most importantly, Its YOUR life.
Dont let anyone dull your shine or break your happiness.
