Its about having higher standards for what you want out of life and that includes love.
Its easier to placate ourselves into thinking that women who ask for less are somehow more.
In reality, theyre more silent about their needs.
Владимир Васильев
More demure about their true desires.
More people-pleasing and less tapped into their power.
More willing to bend over backwards.
More willing to take peoples shit.
Its about having higher standards for what you want out of life and that includes love.
The so-called high maintenance woman with high standards is stereotyped as a woman who is shrill or domineering.
In reality shes just likely to be healthily assertive, high-value and in possession of basic boundaries.
For some people, a woman simply existing and daring to speak is too much.
This isgaslighting, not accuracy.
The high-maintenance woman is less likely to take mistreatment or pretend youre amazingjustto be in a relationship.
She is less likely to say something pleases her when it doesnt.
She expresses her gratitude and appreciation immensely but that doesnt mean theres no room for constructive growth.
This means if she wants to be with you, its a compliment.
She took your actual personality traits and behaviors into account and determined you were a match.
This is different from a woman with low boundaries who will settle for whatever and whoever comes her way.
Thewoman with high standardswill gently want more from you because she knows youre capable of it.
She resists exploitation and attempts to demean her.
Sometimes, she fights back.
This is a good thing that means she sees herself as worthy and deserving of respect.
Youre looking to prey on someone vulnerable and easy.
They love her multifacetedness and truly see her for who she is in all her complexity.
That means these men are top-tier, and are chosen for a reason.
They have to actually raise their own lifestyle, goals, dreams, just to keep up with her.
The high-maintenance woman brings them to greater heights they feel inspired by her and are in awe of her.
They exhibit healthy masculinity and know how to take in feedback and learn from it.
They grow just by being in the presence of a high-value woman.
They love making such women happy because it makes them happy to see their partners shine.
If youre with a woman with high standards, its reflected in her choices of her partners.
