Toxic people see someone like this and they are attracted to the fact they know they can control them.
And people with good hearts simply try and appease them.
I find myself wondering both about them and myself.
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Why do we choose these types of people?
Why is this recurring theme so dominate in our lives?
The same key in of person.
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The same cycle we cant seem to get ourselves out of.
Same endings that crush us.
And we think its our fault or its us to blame and maybe it is.
Maybe we have to be more cautious.
Use our head instead of our heart.
But thats never easy for people like us.
But its these people who end up changing others through being good and kind.
They ones that leave mark on even the cruelest and undeserving hearts.
They see the good in everyone.
They give too many chances.
All it’s crucial that you say when you mess up is Im sorry.
Thats it for them.
They never treat someone the way they are treated.
They will never give someone a taste of their own medicine.
They dont believe in hurting anyone even if the person hurts them.
They truly believe in goodness.
They forgive and forget easily.
They really do have an ability to just forget even the worst moments.
Their friends have to remind them, remember this person did this, that, and another thing.
The truth is no matter how many times they get hurt by someone they dont hold onto pain.
They let it go carelessly and easily.They dont fear wearing their heart on their sleeve.
They will pour their hearts out to people who dont deserve their love.
Their ability to love deeply knows no bounds.
They just never run out of love to give people.
Loving hard comes very naturally to them and they do it fearlessly.
What is hard about being like this is they give other people the love they should be giving themselves.
They give more than they get.
They will constantly go out of their way and go the extra mile for the people they care about.
The problem arises in toxic relationships when people take advantage of it.
They go from appreciating it to expecting it then getting mad when the person doesnt keep up that standard.
They dont judge someones mistakes.
They are so accepting of everyone and everything.
They lack judgment because they know even they make mistakes and have done things they arent proud of.
They gravitate towards people with baggage.
People with good hearts love seeing the underdog overcome something.
So they always end up in these relationships with people who have a tough past.
But they dont judge them for it but accept them.
It becomes toxic though when they get handed too much.
When this person relies on them really heavily.
They dont use words to hurt people.
People with good hearts know the power words have.
They have watched themselves fall apart because of others choosing to take them down with harsh and cruel words.
Theyve watched themselves cry over texts theyve reread.
People with good hearts truly dont understand unkindness.
Because they dont have a mean bone in their body.
In toxic relationships, toxic people have a sour tongue and lack remorse.
They will apologize even when its not their fault.
They will never call you out on something and they dont stick up for themselves too much.
They want to save people.
They dont look at someone who is damaged and broken as someone who is flawed.
They look at it as a challenge.
They hate giving up on anyone.
People with good hearts see people others look past and they want to be right about them.
But the cost is getting hurt because a toxic person has got to learn on their own.
They think they can change people.
People with good hearts think they can change people but the change doesnt occur while in the relationships.
Toxic relationships ruin everyone involved.
Theres this moment where they realize how horrible they were to this person who deserved it least.
They feel like theyve let them down.
But then they realize its for their own good.
Then they have to learn to heal from a relationship that took such an emotional toll on them.
They suddenly become to trust anyone including themselves a little less.
They have walls that are so high that they never had up before.
They question everyone and everything because of one person.
People with good hearts sacrifice themselves to try and save someone but the cost was self-destruction in the process.
