Its confusing and frustrating.
I asked this question to myself alotwhen I was single and dating in my twenties.
It was so confusing because at first, the guys seemedsuperinto me.
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This is something many, many women have experienced as well.
Lets look at it a little deeper…
It really comes down to your vibe.
What does that mean?
And most people can intuitively pick up on someones vibe.
You know when youre in the presence of an anxious, insecure person.
You also know when youre in the presence of a confident, happy person.
Being positive is a vibe; its an energy that comes across.
Our vibe attracts people or drives them away.
Now sometimes its because it wasnt a match.
Why does this happen?
If it doesnt, then thats fine, tooyou werent so into it anyway.
Now with the guys you do want there is more at stake.
All of this comes from stressing over the relationship.
When youre in this state of mind, its impossible to form a genuine connection because youre not there.
The most important thing to focus on is getting to the right place internally.
Start by noticing your thoughts throughout the day.
Then look at the thought.
Lets say you think, This guy didnt text me back… he must be losing interest.
Why does this always happen to me?Stop.
Then ask yourself: does this thought serve me well?
Does this take me where I want to go?
Its not serving you well.
Recognize that and then shift your mind to something more positive and productive.
Do this throughout the day.
And youll notice that it becomes more natural and you feel lighter and calmer.
Sometimes its that simple.
This is essentially the crux of manifestation.
