You know how happy relationships can make you but you also know how miserable breakups can make you.
You know how painful it feels when the person you thought you could trust walks away.
You know how deeply your heart is capable of breaking and you dont want to endure it again.
Huy Phan
The thought of dating again is scary because you dont want history to repeat itself.
You picked the wrong person once before.
Whats stopping you from making the same mistake again?
The thought of dating again is scary because your breakup caused you to lose confidence.
The thought of dating again is scary because you feel safer on your own.
When you dont care about anyone, youre taking away their power to hurt you.
But youre only fooling yourself.
You arent actually heartless and you cant keep pretending that you are.
Whether you agree to a relationship or remain single, youre eventually going to care about someone.
Youre eventually going to get attached.
Instead of letting that scare you, let it excite you.
The thought of dating again is scary because you have to start over.
You dont get to skip straight to the comfortable stage.
You have to go on first dates and gradually get to know each other.
You have to start building a relationship from scratch.
you should probably take the relationship one step at a time.
You cant hide your heart away because youre terrified of it breaking.
Whenever you let yourself care, youre putting yourself in danger.
Theres always a chance that youll end up with another broken heart.
But you survived your last heartache.
Youll survive the next one, too.
And thats if there evenisa next one.
The person you end up with next might be the perfect fit.
You might never experience a broken heart again.
You might be closer to yourhappily ever afterthan you think.
