Youve seen their softest sides.
Youve been kissed and complimented by their lips.
Plus, you know how much shit theyve been through in the past.
Christian Bowen
You know things arent exactly easy for them.
You know they arent all bad.
You know they have beautiful qualities too.
But the good days cant cancel out the bad days.
You cant ignore the horrible way theyre treating you today in the hopes that theyll treat you better tomorrow.
Toxic loves are so hard to leave because youre holding onto the hope that they will change.
You believe people are capable of bettering themselves.
You believe in second chances.
You believe in sticking by your partner through thick and through thin.
You are hoping theyll love you enough to stop hurting you.
You are hoping theyll follow through on their promise this timeeven though theyve broken promises so many times before.
you’re free to forgive them without keeping them in your world.
you might care about them without keeping in contact with them.
you’re able to love them from afar.
Toxic loves are so hard to leave because youre overwhelmed with mixed signals.
You dont want to believe that perfect person turned into a monster.
You dont want to think about what theyve done to you.
So you ignore it.
You drown out your doubts.
You pretend everything is fine.
But you cant put on a performance forever.
Toxic loves are so hard to leave because you dont want to admit that youve made a mistake.
You dont want to acknowledge the fact that you picked the wrong person.
And you certainly dont want to jump back into the dating pool.
Youve already put so much time and effort into this relationship, so you want it to work.
But you cant keep procrastinating.
If you dont belong together, you should get out before things get worse.
Get out because you still have the chance to build a future with someone else or on your own.
Anything is better than remaining with a toxic love.
